I have a question about singing in church.  I like going to church, but I do not like to sing.  Is this wrong of me, or is this okay?  I do stand with everybody, but I just do not like singing.  I like to hear people sing because some people have such great voices, but is it a sin for me not to sing also?  Thanks for your time!

Sincerely,
Mums The Word

Dear Mums The Word,

Singing hymns to God is indeed a commandment (Col 3:16).  You do need to sing as part of your worship to God.  Singing isn’t about listening; it is about sending and giving God praise and honor.  It is the gift of your lips to Him.

Having said that, take heart, God doesn’t care how you sound.  The only melody He cares about is the melody in your heart (Eph 5:19).  Far too often, we worry about how we sound – God doesn’t care one wit about that.  So sing out and let God know how thankful you are for all He gives you.

Concerning your post “Should the Hip Hop Stop?” : is it scripturally wrong then to play hymns on musical instruments, such as Amazing Grace on bagpipes or violin without singing along? What about listening to Elvis’ gospel album as a form of entertainment/personal enjoyment (I think he had a beautiful voice and like the songs)?

Sincerely,
Graceland Groupie

Dear Graceland Groupie,

With or without vocal accompaniment, the rules are the same. Please make sure to read “Should the Hip Hop Stop?” for our full explanation of this subject. If instrumental religious music is performed as worship, it is wrong. If it is played simply for entertainment, it is perfectly permissible (as long as it follows the guidelines we outlined in the previous post). God asks for our worship to be acappella (Eph 5:19). Incidentally, the word ‘acappella’ means ‘as the church’ because the early church never used instruments in their worship. Instruments weren’t introduced into worship services until the sixth century. The church of the first century understood that when God asked for them to sing – that meant they shoul only sing. If we begin to add to God’s worship service, we are adding to God’s commands and teachings (Deu 12:32, Rev 22:18).

As far as the question about Elvis’ gospel album – the same rules would apply to him as any other religious musician. He may have been the “King of Rock ‘n’ Roll”, but the “King of Kings” still has more authority (1 Tim 6:15).

Is it okay to listen to “Christian Music”? I know the Bible says to sing and make melody in your heart, but outside of church and worship, can you listen to instrumental Christian music? I feel like it’s better to listen to than some of the other stuff that is out there.

Sincerely,
Rhythm And Lyrics

Dear Rhythm And Lyrics,

It isn’t inherently wrong to listen to “Christian Music”, but it is worth considering the effects it will have upon your influence, your behavior, and your conscience. You are right, God asks us to worship Him through singing and making melody in our heart (Eph 5:19). God never asks for any instrument to be plucked but our heart strings. That is the worship He asks for, and that is the worship we should give Him – no more and no less (Rev 22:18-19, Deu 4:2).

If you are going to listen to religious music with instrumental accompaniment, you must understand that they recorded it as a form of worship as well as a form of entertainment… which is wrong. Therefore, by buying and actively listening to such music, you may be sending mixed messages to others and supporting an industry that is built upon a false teaching. We have to consider how our behavior looks to others (Matt 5:16). Just because you know anything but acapella worship is wrong doesn’t mean others would.

You also must consider your behavior – are you singing along with the music? If so, are you worshipping God with the words of the song? It is not always easy to discern the line between singing along as a form of entertainment and singing along as worship. You must decide for yourself if your behavior crosses the line between personal enjoyment and active participation in a form of worship God doesn’t desire.

Which brings us to the last question – does it bother your conscience? If you cannot feel completely convinced in your mind that what you are doing is acceptable before God, you have to refrain. Whatever cannot be done in faith is sin (Rom 14:23). If you consider your conscience, your influence, and your behavior before God, only then will you be able to come to a sound personal decision on whether or not you can listen.